Day 5

Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behaviour. This is from their perspective only.

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 10:12

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Well Day 5 was a lot tougher...for one it took me two days to "complete". Jordan and I did not have any alone time to talk personally, and I felt it wasn't something that needed to be asked in front of others. We had some alone time today and I asked him of some things that irritate him. Jordan didn't have an answer for me. NOW, that DOES NOT mean I do nothing to irritate him, I know I do, but Jordan has problems with memory. He may not honestly remember anything that irritates him. We did talk about telling me in the moment so that I can work on/try fixing things that may irritate him. We had a good extended conversation today and it was quite nice.

Jordan did ask where this question came from and why I was asking it now....I deferred him and told him it was just something I was thinking about. I really don't want him to know about this because I feel he would try to complete it for me, only get a few days and then forget he is and it would disappoint me, or let me down. I'd rather just do this for us and not expect anything in return with regards to the Love Dare.

Well anyways, back to the Dare and onto Day 6!! It's a toughie! :)